We all know how some people can get out of place when commenting on social media, Refilwe has clearly had enough of some people's rude ways in these social media streets.
After reading a nasty comment posted by a user on her Instagram profile, Fifi took it upon herself to reply to the comment.
All my life I've had to go through this & even as a fully grown woman. I've even been called all sorts of names, pig.... ugly.... ghost....the works. And trust me it has made me the most incredible woman you can come across because beyond all that I have made something of that ugly girl you keep scrutinising. I am going down in history books with a life lived meaningfully with impact & blessings some could never be adorned with. And I wasn't going to do this but felt the need to try open eyes to how something like this could break a spirit who may not be as strong & as feisty as I am. I've been told to block & not respond.... & I understand that it eleviates dealing with morons but truth is if we keep allowing people to do this.... at what point are we saying it's not ok period. Our society is built of messed up people who create other messed up people because of things like this.... even worse yet what happens to the child who is then shaped believing it's ok to hear such things. And you wonder why we have so many broken people... hate & suicide cases. I know I'm still going to hear speeches people telling me Fi you know about yourself.... U don't have to answer to such people etc etc & trust me I appreciate it... I don't need validation from anybody because God knew what he was doing creating me as is... & I'm proud! But at times I have to just say something so people can be schooled on their ignorance. You can never change the mind of a fool but at least you can help the world understand things better for those that were going to catch this dom vibe. Let's learn to respect each other & our differences. This may be social media.... but u are still speaking into somebody's life with your venom. Unfortunately we live in an age where a lot is now affected & shaped by social media.... what kind of children are we raising condoning rubbish from people that hide behind social media. No man. Can we be better people please. Respect people's differences to yours! I love who God made in me & can never disrespect that falling prey to what other people feel is law for me. That's nonsense. LOVE YOUR DAMN SELF DEAR CHILD! #TruthBeTold #RespectMyConglomerate 😙💛👑💪
Refilwe went on to post the image with a heartfelt caption. ''I've even been called all sorts of names, pig.... ugly.... ghost....the works."
Refilwe expresses her feelings on the World we live, ''Our society is built of messed up people who create other messed up people because of things like this.... even worse yet what happens to the child who is then shaped believing it's ok to hear such things.'' and eventually thanks God for the way she has been created, ''I love who God made in me & can never disrespect that falling prey to what other people feel is law for me.''
Refilwe celebrated her 31st birthday on the 2 January and received love and support from her fans and friends including the likes of Bonang:
Dance choreographer and actress, Bontle Modiselle also showed some love:
The other day we had a conversation that easily ranks as one of my life's favourites. I remember saying to you that you built more of my character than I let you in on. I'm a cryer 🙈 (you know this) but I'm stubborn as all hell because you taught it to me. I get my strength from you. I'm stubborn in what I can be and produce because of you. I challenge what I choose. I know the words "I can't" don't exist because of you. My inner voice sounds alot like yours and mamas in rotation. You're a different kind of beautiful. You're crazy amazing. A clown. A gem. A Goddess I get to have as my sister. I couldn't have asked for a better older sister. I'm the proudest girl to have your blood in my veins. 31 years later you're still surprising. I'm excited for the prospects of your future...we're gonna have such epic stories to tell our kids. Thank you my honeymooner, my sweetypier. I love you stupidly!!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY BEYPS. Hurry home so I can smother you with kisses! Like as we did when we were kids, @candie_emz and I will protect you well into our old age. We'll be your eyes when you need them...your dance moves when you miss a step. One thing remains that ONLY YOU can accomplish that neither @candie_emz and I can do: YOU'RE DESTINED TO CHANGE THE WORLD @refilwemodiselle. PLEASE NEVER EVER FORGET THAT!!! NOW GO OUT AND GET YOURS. IT'S TIME! ❤❤❤
As well as Yo.TV presenter Candice Modiselle
This gorgeous strong woman I'm blessed to call my sister turns a year older today... Thank you for being a consistent pillar, second mother in your own right, a TLOWN😂😂❤❤, the person that challenges me most to always be better and do better, but also an exemplary source of strength and perfect reference to @bontle.modiselle and I on "How to overcome". I love you to the moon, a little further passed it, juuust a bit more, and all the way back!! HAPPY BEVDAY LADY BABY @refilwemodiselle!!! PEW PEW PEW!!!! 🎉🎈🎊🎂🎁💕