As healthy as the co-parenting situation between DJ Zinhle and AKA is, people are often left divided over some of the things they do publicly. For Fathers Day, DJ Zinhle celebrated her baby daddies, but some people felt her celebrating AKA was a bit too much considering the fact that they had broken up and moved on a long time ago.
Taking to Instagram, DJ Zinhle wished her boyfriend Murdah Bongz a Happy Fathers Day. Then on Twitter, she wished AKA, Kairo's father, a good one as well.
Of course the comments section was filled with mixed reactions from her followers, with some 'sympathising' with Murdah Bongz.
You see this thing of dating baby mamas is an extreme sport, imagine how the black motion guy might be feeling now.
— Swati Speaking Lawyer🇿🇦 (@AdvMagadze) June 19, 2022
I share same sentiments i dont understand the significance of a woman posting her "baby daddy" on Father's day like why? keng se se kana kana
Only a weak partner will be comfortable with this. The daughter should post her dad not Zinhle. It's Father's day, AKA is not Zinhle's father
— Danny ZwideKaLanga (@SimplyCallmeDee) June 19, 2022
But DJ Zinhle reminded people that they should never judge others based on situations they have never been in themselves. This was in response to the outrage over her posting AKA, "May you remember your own advice when you face the same difficulties/situation that you judge others on"
May you remember your own advice when you face the same difficulties/situation that you judge others on...
— #Siyabonga #ERAbyDJZinhle #ZeeNation (@DJZinhle) June 19, 2022
Some felt as though Zinhle was returning the favour as AKA also posted her on Mother's Day.
AKA responded to people saying it's wrong for boyfriends to post and celebrate their baby mamas. But he said it's called being matured.
"Those that say they don't see anything wrong with their boyfriends posting their baby mama's amaze me, lmao I'd perish," the woman said. AKA clapped back and said, "It’s called … maturity. Being an adult. Try it. It’s lit."
Completing their blended family, Lynn Forbes also appreciates all the people in her life including DJ Zinhle's bae Bongani and Nadia Nakai who is dating AKA. She penned a lenghty post thanking all these people for making the family a possibility.
"As we approach Mother’s Day and as I reflect on motherhood, I am most grateful for my own mother and for what she has has taught me about love and family."
"Raising a blended family, through many challenges, to live together in harmony and raise well balanced, happy children, is not always easy but it’s possible when everyone works together, in the best interest of the youngest children in the family. Thank you mom @janet.reed2 for your never-ending love and teachings."
"To the people who make this family possible, thank you. You each have your own family and nothing can ever take away from the importance of belonging to that family, that is most important and always will be. But today, in this moment, as we celebrate mother’s and family…this family, beautifully blended, is not possible without you and the energy you bring, to make us what we are …a family. Thank you for being authentically you," she said.
