Berita Clarifies That Her Marriage With Nota Is Over

He continues posting her on social media

By  | Mar 15, 2023, 09:49 AM  | Berita  | Relationships

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While Nota Nhlamulo Baloyi continues to post his estranged and soon-to-be ex-wife Berita, the Afro singer says their marriage is as good as done. Nota tries to convince people that his marriage with Berita might be in trouble, but they are not getting divorced. However, Berita clarifies that they are indeed getting divorced.

Read more: Berita On The Day She Left Her Marriage

Every time Nota would say something negative, slanderous or defamatory, it reflected badly on his 'wife' Berita. People assumed she was okay with his dangerous statements, especially towards women. Berita reached her breaking point when Nota said he could Mihlali Ndamase if he wanted to.

Berita took to Twitter to tell the masses that her marriage with Nota is over and she apologised to Mihlali, who accepted her apology.

Speaking to ZiMoja, Berita clarified that she and Nota are getting a divorce and that they have not spoken in a while.

“I heard he was arrested for 60 days for contempt of court, but I don’t know anything because we do not speak anymore,” she told the publication. “I know nothing about what is happening in his life. We do not talk, and we have not spoken for a long time. I will not be seeing him any time soon.”

“We were officially married. I believed he was the one for me. But it turned out I was wrong, and we are currently in the process of getting a divorce.”

On life after divorce, Berita says she wishes Nota peace of mind, "I wish to be able to have peace of mind. I also wish peace of mind for my ex-husband to accept the things he cannot change. He is someone I thought I would be with for the rest of my life, but he does what he wants, and I am not in control of his action. But the best I can do is have peace within myself and continue with life. I thought he was for me, but it unfolded that he was not the one, I can't beat myself up about it. I can just hope for the best for him.”

Read more: Has NOTA Moved On From Berita?

In a recent interview on Kaya 959 with Sol Phenduka and Dineo Ranaka, she spoke about her failed marriage in more detail

“The day I found out I was in an abusive relationship I quickly made plans. I remember I had bought continental pillows and I remember packing my stuff and I told him I was taking it back. At that moment I booked myself into a hotel room and I left as if I was coming back. I still came back, told him I was going to the studio and I never came back,” she told Kaya FM.

“It went from being that to a full-blown-out argument where he was shouting at the police. That’s when I knew that this was never going to be my life. I only started to see the signs after we got married.

“He was harassing me and everyone else around me and I had to even leave the country for 6 months. My dad didn’t want me to come back to Johannesburg. I told my dad that I had never experienced that type of rage in my life. I really was naive when I got into the relationship. I didn’t take the time to get to know him. At one point, I thought we shared the same type of values.”

Read more: Has Berita Moved On?

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