Zoleka Mandela is expecting her 6th baby and she made it clear that this is her last. She shared that in the year 2023, she does not need a man in her life, and only wants to raise her children.
The author who is never afraid to reveal some personal details about her life, took to Instagram to share how she sees her future after giving birth to baby Zingce and it does not involve a man in her life.
Posting a throwback video of her looking all dolled up, Zoleka said on her 43rd birthday, she wants to look as gorgeous as she did. In 2020 she made a decision to stay very single for some time but that changed when she met her now-former lover, who even got her pregnant.
When she announced her relationship, she said she never thought she would ever date a Xhosa man ever in her life. That all changed when he came into her life of course, but now it seems like she is very serious about remaining single. Zoleka said if she were to get into a relationship, she would fall in love and gain weight, which is something she does not want to happen.
"I also don’t want a man in my life because the moment I fall in love, weight gain and pregnancy same time, my n*gga!!! I just don’t know how I’m going to cope without the sexual benefits of having a man because I don’t want the relationship per se, but I want the part where he comes over when I tell him to … without him spending the night, without him being with anyone else or bothering me with feelings because that’s just not in my DNA anymore!!!"
She realises that this is a bit too much but is seeing a therapist to help her cope with her bucket load of problems.
She mentioned a week ago, that she does not need any pity from people and that she deserves respect because she managed to do this alone with no man by her side.
“Don’t pity me because I’m a single mom. Respect me for having courage to do it alone, the strength to never give up, and the love to put my own child’s needs before my own,” said the 'Proud Happy Mama.'
The media personality who aims to inspire women by posting motivational quotes or share her life experiences, is also documenting her pregnancy journey.
She is currently in her third trimester and showed off some dance moves. She advised some expectant mothers that they should take care of their pregnant bodies as well, “I wanted to remind you of something ... the more you increase your pregnancy fitness, the faster you'll recover physically after childbirth, the more fit you'll be after delivery. In a study, women who exercised recovered faster after labour (even after controlling for the type of delivery), resuming household chores more quickly than those who didn’t exercise.”
