Is AKA More Mature Than Murdah?

Fans don't agree with Zinhle's blended family set up plan

By  | Nov 30, 2021, 01:16 PM  | DJ Zinhle  | Top of The

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DJ Zinhle's reality show DJ Zinhle: Unexpected recent episode drew mixed reactions from viewers

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It comes after AKA, her baby daddy, revealed he wants to be a part of Asante's life, the same way Murdah Bongz is a part of Kairo's. AKA and Zinhle parted ways last year, and they have been co-parenting ever since and they are doing well. Now it seems Zinhle would like to see his baby daddies get along.

Zinhle shared how AKA called her a rebel after telling him about her pregnancy in the episode. “I spoke to Kiernan about the baby. He said I’m quite a rebel. ‘You have another kid, with another man’. He said your family must think you are such a problem,” she said. AKA said he feels because he has a child with Zinhle, Asante is also his child. “He said I need to know the details, so I said okay it is a girl. He said I was hoping for a boy, sit. My brother said it is not your baby and he said it kind of feels like it is my baby, I said wow, that is crazy,” she continued.

“He said well obviously Bongani has a relationship with Kairo. So you guys can’t ask me not to have a relationship with this one,” she added. Zinhle noted that Murdah is not in a hurry for the blended family setup, although this is a sweet gesture. “Bongani is baby steps because I won’t lie… I thought Bongani is going to be the easy one about this whole thing and I thought Kiernan would be difficult but actually it is the other way around,” said DJ Zinhle.

“Kiernan is more open to the idea of having this family but Bongani is just taking his time. He is not in a rush and I also need to respect Bongani’s wishes and how he wants to roll this whole thing out,” she said. Now, fans think Zinhle should stop forcing them together.
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For the sake of their children, Zinhle hopes AKA and Murdah will get along. “So that is the hardest question. So how am I going to blend Bongani and his kid with me. “So how am I going to bring Bongani and his kid with me? So there’s Kiernan and Kairo on this side and Bongani and his child on the other side. I need to find a way to make Bongani and Kiernan get along. That's the only way this is going to work,” she said.

Apart from Zinhle wanting to have a blended family set up fans are in awe of her co-parenting skills with AKA. A fan recently agreed that Zinhle's intentions have always been good, "They are in a good space and parenting well, I’m happy for them. I also think it’s because Zinhle has always been mature about everything and always sought peace even when she was hurt over and over again. She never does anything to spite aka but I can’t say the same for him."

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