Pearl is the mother of one, she was blessed with a beautiful baby boy last year.
Taking to Twitter, the new mom said: " You get shamed for not having a child. You eventually have one when youโre ready and then get shamed for not wanting siblings for your child."
Pearl's tweet opened a platform for other women to share their personal experiences, Mogano Pretty said her relatives are always shaming her because she does not have a child at her age.
"Am 31 and don't have a child, if you can hear the shame from my relatives ijooo it's unbearable, one of my cousin sisters told me to my face that I should just find any guy to impregnate me since am working and to them, it's like am struggling on finding a stable partner..."
35 year-old Tebogo said she gets shamed for not having another child, she said she was also shamed for having her firstborn at the age of 18.
"Am 35yrs with a 16yrs old n no plans for another, am shamed for not having another. I was shamed for having her at 18, it moved to having a child out of wedlock, now it's not having another," she tweeted.
I have a 15 years old daughter n my family pressurize me to have another child, and again my child says mommy can I atleast have someone to call my baby sister or baby brother, Im considering but I'm at the age of 40 and it hurts me๐๐
In another tweet, Pearl asked her fans if it is lonely being the only child at home.
She tweeted: "As an only child, do you find that you are lonely because your parents didnโt have more children/siblings for you."
Pearl also made it clear that she is not planning to have another baby anytime soon after a tweep asked her to go for a second baby. She said she had a scary pregnancy.
"Lol, no! I had very bad PPD and pregnancy as a whole was very scary for me especially the birth so itโs going to be a long while until I even consider it again," she responded.
Lol, no! I had very bad PPD and pregnancy as a whole was very scary for me especially the birth so itโs going to be a long while until I even consider it again.
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Engaging on Pearl's tweet, Masie said her cousins turned their back on her after the passing of her parents.
She wrote: " I'm the only child but grew up with my 2 cousinsโฆboth were raised by Mama since they were 2yrs old, daddy died when I was 13 Mommy when I was 21 guess what after Mommy death my 2 cousins left me and went to look for their siblings. As Iโm speaking my 2 cousins are staying at their homeโฆ
"But God blessed me with a good job from age of 23yrs, then a husband when I was 25 today Iโm 33yrs mother of 2 wives to my husband. I donโt feel lonely at all my kids and my husband are my everything."
Iโm the only child but grew up with my 2 cousinโฆboth were raised by Mama since they were 2yrs oll, daddy died when I was 13 Mommy when I was 21 guess what after Mommy death my 2 cousins left me and went to look for their siblings. As Iโm speaking my 2 cousins are staying at thei
