Though there’s a long list of people who agree with her statement, some tweeps have suggested on social media that the media personality put on weight due to her ex-boyfriend of ten years getting hitched late last year.
She re-tweeted and posted a long message on social media that got everyone asking, who’s she’s referring to:
She was dragged by tweeps last year and started trended just after her ex-boyfriend, Sidwell “Pysfo” Ngwenya announced that he now a married, to his girlfriend of three years, Amira.
Sidwell's broke the news on his social media with photos of their wedding day and tweeps reminded him again on his previous ’10 year relationship’ with Hulisani or CC as she was previously called.
Ravele ignored the trolls and continued to preach love and care in a sweet tweet which read:
“We need to learn to not always negatively interpret and analyse someone's actions as an indication of our value or worth to them. Sometimes their actions are what is saving them and holding them together, sometimes their actions are exactly the breath of fresh air they so desperately need to strengthen their soul.”
She also recently continued to express self-love and the importance of continuing to love yourself even when you put on weight.
“The most important part for me is that I have not allowed this change in my physical appearance to stop me from living my life to the fullest! I know there are lifestyle changes I need to make, and I will make them, but in the meantime, I am not opting out of life.
We need to learn to not always negatively interpret and analyse someone's actions as an indication of our value or worth to them. Sometimes their actions are what is saving them and holding them together, sometimes their actions are exactly the breath of fresh air they so desperately need to strengthen their soul.”
Ravele also previously cleared the air about her previous relationship on an interview with MacG that she doesn't feel like she wasted 10 years of her life, as tweeps imply.
MacG asked her: “Don't you feel like he wasted 10 years of your time?” to which she replied:
“No, what's the waste? Here's the problem, when you set your benchmark and goal as marriage, kids and a house, you are not enjoying what it is right now. And I find that for so many of us because the goal is not at a relationship level, just as relating to one another as humans. It's, until I have a ring on it, it's not real. So what are you doing? At the end of the day, for me, a marriage is a relationship that just has a certificate attached to it.”
