Dineo Ranaka is never one to shy away from speaking her mind. The Kaya 959 radio presenter sparked a conversation about blended families, saying she loves and appreciates her first two baby daddies so much.
She shared a WhatsApp status update where she gushes over her first two baby daddies, one of them is Blaklez. "I love my 1st baby daddies so much bathong. Such peaceful gents those ones. I'm blessed in variety of good male character traits there."
Captioning her post, she said people need to have high vibrations to understand healthy blended families, “Blended family things that are way beyond the understanding of your basic human being! You need to be at top-tier vibrations to comprehend this sort of content. It’s so easy to respect them, their ways and their lives.”
She said their relationship started out great as friends but things took a nasty turn when he allegedly slapped her for the first time.
“If that guy didn’t hit me in my marriage, then we would still be on good terms. I had my three-month-old baby in my arms the last time he hit me and I was like no, this is not how it’s going to go down," she alleged.
Dineo said she is proud she left her abusive marriage, “I’m going to talk about my story and I’m going to talk about how I was beaten up in my marriage and I’m proud that I didn’t waste years of my life serving a man who’s not worthy of my service because when I serve, I serve my boy and he knows it.”
She then spoke about her previous relationships, including her two baby daddies she praises so much. She admitted to being toxic to some extent but said she serves her man if deserving.
“All the guys that I have been with know when I’m toxic but when I serve, I serve. I was like I don’t deserve this though. A few months into the marriage I went for divorce. The signs are always there but here’s the thing, as human beings, I don’t think I’m going to blame myself for believing that a person can be different. Because on the larger scale of our relationship he really was great.
Dineo admitted that there was also infidelity, "Yes, he cheated on me, If I was still in that marriage, I’d be planning to cheat on him too. He knows this, we discussed it. I told him when my caesarian scars get better ke tlogo febela go hlanya," shared Dineo Ranaka.
“They try and threaten you to silence you. If anyone is in an abusive relationship don’t take those threats to heart. Speak about your pain, speak about your experience, talk about it, and make the abuser smaller and smaller and smaller in the capacity of how they think they are a big monster. Abusive people tend to threaten you and they have a tendency to want you to shut up about your story,” she warns about abusive men.
