Sthandwa said that men who don't have money should not even attempt to have isithembu (polygamy). She said, "Isithembu sifuna imali (polygamy needs people who have money), in fact, to keep a single woman, you need money or stay the hell away from women. PLEASE!!! Yekani ukusukela izingane zabantu, nithi niyazithanda/nishade but lack responsibility yokuba indoda"
Sthandwa did not end there, she also said, "nalento yokubuza intombazane o 'what are you bringing to the table" haibo thixo, you brought yourself to ME...unprovoked...what table now?
According to Isolezwe, Sthandwa suffered greatly at the hands of her then husband. She eventually laid charges of assault against him.
Fans were happy for the personality for tying the knot with her partner and she gushed over him during their anniversary about 3 years ago. Everything seemed to be going well for the couple then the unexpected happened.
Rumours started circulating that Sthandwa and her husband were having marital problems and were on the verge of a divorce, however she denied those claims.
The publication detailed some of the horrific events that took place within their marriage. They allege that her husband beat her to a pulp and smashed her phone during an argument.
KwaZulu-Natal police spokesperson, Captain Nqobile Gwala confirmed to Isolezwe that a woman went to open a case against her husband on January 18. "He appeared in front of the judge on January 21 and the case was moved to February 18," he added.
Gama is also said to speak ill about her during church sermons and aired her dirty laundry during one of his services. Claims which Sthandwa denied when asked about them.
In order to protect her kids, Sthandwa never addressed these rumours and suffered in silence. This time when contacted by the publication, she hesitantly spoke out, without revealing too much.
"The reason my marriage is suffering is because of the abuse I have suffered at the hands of my husband. I do not like talking about my private life, nonetheless it is true that I have opened a case of against him," she said.
After laying the charge at the station, she then requested that the police accompany her to her home to fetch her belongings as she was scared to go there alone.
Sthandwa's character on Durban Gen is a very different woman. She is a gynecologist that will stop will stop at nothing to have not just her friend's husband but her life as well. She knows everything about her friend and the marriage she has with her husband and because she uses every information at her disposal to get her win, no matter how small. Sis is a problem if we are being honest.
She has lost everything in her own life and her way of building back up is by stabbing the very people that were there for her when she had nothing.
