A year ago, Hulisani Ravele trended after her ex-boyfriend Psyfo married Amira, who he has been dating for more than three years. Before that, she also got dragged into his engagement leaving people to wonder if Psyfo wasted all those years of her life.
Hulisani and Psyfo were in a relationship for more than 10 years. When he got married, it did not sit well with people because he married Amira just 3 years into the relationship.
Now, Hulisani has introduced to fans her very own 'Kevin Costner' who she says she "loves forever."
Under her picture were fans who expressed excitement for the presenter for having found love.
@tshitshy: "The person who took this photo will reveal the identity of the bodyguard, you wait and see."
@msnelie: "Huli gone girl!! Happy birthday to your husband. love this for you sis."
@thandomagadla: "Happiness looks good on you Huli."
When Psyfo and Amira announced their marriage, Amira wrote, "Good people. This past Saturday (21/11/2020), was the most beautiful day of my life. I got married to my best friend on top of a mountain, in my home province and I don’t have all the words to express how happy and in love I am with this man who has been so committed and loyal to me. I have many interesting and funny stories to share about our special day. Overall, I can’t believe we did it mate."
Tweeps however slammed how relationships can be unfair sometimes, "I hate how Psyfo's story is just a reminder of how much of an extreme sport relationships are. You could be with someone that long only for nothing to happen only for you to get engaged to someone else in a space of 3 months followed by a wedding. Relationships are difficult guys."
But surprisingly enough, Hulisani does not feel as though Psyfo wasted her time. She told Mac G in her interview that is she had set goals for the relationship, then she would not have enjoyed the years they spent together.
"Here's the problem, when you set your benchmark and goal as marriage, kids and a house, you are not enjoying what it is right now. And I find that for so many of us because the goal is not at a relationship level, just as relationship to one another as humans. It's a until I have a ring on it, it's not real. So what are you doing? At the end of the day for me, a marriage is a relationship that just has a certificate attached to it." She said.
