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Answering a question which asks what scares people about marriage, she said she was scared about her in-laws not accepting her for who she is. Lamiez is a DJ who is always on the road attending gigs and has inked her body so much that many people thought she would never get married.
Luckily she met her soulmate rapper Khuli Chana who, along with his family, have accepted her for who she is and she loves it. "Honestly? The thought of my in laws trying to box me was my biggest fear. Kgante Iβd be blessed with a family that gets and accepts me as much my own does. My mother in law? Lepara! Nna ke lepantsula (I'm a pantsula) and married or not, this is who I am," she answered.
Honestly? The thought of my in laws trying to box me was my biggest fear Kgante Iβd be blessed with a family that gets and accepts me as much my own does. My mother in law? Lepara!
β π»π ππππππ« βπ ππ¨π π£π₯ππͺ (@LamiezHolworthy) June 6, 2021
Nna ke lepantsula and married or not,this is who I am. π€·πΎββοΈ https://t.co/pa6I8gVaof
She also thinks society is to blame for people fearing marriage so much because of the ridiculous expectations. "Also society and its unrealistic expectations play a big role in why batho ba tshaba lenyalo (people are so scared about marriage.) For the longest time Iβd get silly comments like βYou're a DJ who will marry you? Or "With so many tattoos will you ever get married?"
Also society and its unrealistic expectations play a big role in why batho ba tshaba lenyalo.
β π»π ππππππ« βπ ππ¨π π£π₯ππͺ (@LamiezHolworthy) June 6, 2021
4 the longest time Iβd get silly comments like βo Le dj,wa go nyala ke mang o tsamaya boshigoβ Or βka do tattoo tse million,lenyalo o tla re kreya Maraβ
π€¦π½ββοΈ https://t.co/1QZTynHXdm
Also,letβs get 1 thing straight- lenyalo ga se Maemo! Le go etsa bana ga se Maemo.
β π»π ππππππ« βπ ππ¨π π£π₯ππͺ (@LamiezHolworthy) June 6, 2021
Society constantly measures a womanβs worth by the above and itβs exhausting coz 1. Not all woman want to have kids or get married and
2. THATβS OKAY!!!
"That's not OK you can't have everything you want in life and fail to give Khuli a child, issa no no. Don't you want a child or Khuli doesn't want a child or is it bcoz you guys can't make a child?"
Lamiez clapped back hard. Good for her!
"You're a joke. The point that I just made flew right over your head neh?! Imagine a whole adult like yourself so invested in MY life. Tell me how any of this is your business also? O stlaela wena, jyβs Dom! Houtkop nje. shame man."
Wena o joke!
β π»π ππππππ« βπ ππ¨π π£π₯ππͺ (@LamiezHolworthy) June 6, 2021
Ke gore the point that I just made flew right over your head neh?!
Imagine a whole adult like yourself so invested in MY life.
Tell me how any of this is your business also?
O stlaela wena,jyβs Dom! Houtkop nje. π shame man. https://t.co/ThtFaV3MRN
Lamiez was not impressed by this and lashed out even more, "We really tweet amongst baloi Le Di houtkop (witches) and itβs sad because contrary to what many believe, Twitter can be such a beautiful place. Not only because Iβve seen you guys come together, stand together and support each other for a greater course but also because y'all are super funny too," she tweeted.
We really tweet amongst baloi Le Di houtkop n itβs sad bcoz contrary 2what many believe,Twitter can be such a beautiful place.
β π»π ππππππ« βπ ππ¨π π£π₯ππͺ (@LamiezHolworthy) June 6, 2021
Not only because Iβve seen you guys come together,stand together and support each other for a greater course but also because yall r super funny too
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