If you're a die hard Kelly Khumalo fan, you'd know that her lyrics have always been about sad love songs, and now as she’s set to release a gospel song she opens up about how her perspective has changed around the topic of love.
We’ve seen Kelly Khumalo’s previous relationships make headlines for both good and bad reasons, speaking to Thami Dish in a recent interview on TouchHD, Kelly opened up about how growth has made her to be cautious of who she chooses to be her next knight in shining armour.
"I’ve always gone into relationships because someone has asked me out, it has never been about, so I wanna be with this person, do I want to date this person, do I want a relationship with this person? Do I even like this person enough to be in a relationship with them...so it has always been about the other party as opposed to me…”
With Kelly admittedly saying that she has a “very strong” intimidating character, she went on to reveal the type of man she would allow into her life.
“I’ve learnt quite a lot as far as that’s concerned, it’s not about who wants me, it's about who I want, which has changed the whole love, relationship and dating game, I will not let you into my space unless I want to, I will not keep you unless I see something worth keeping...I’m not looking for a young boy, I’m looking for a man , who will be able to stand up to this woman that I’ve become...a woman who knows what she wants and what she represents, and for you to be part of this, you need to know what you want and what you represent as an individual,”
Kelly is adamant that she has a gift of discerning certain energies in people, and says that she will go as far as meeting her next partners parents to make sure she gets it right.
“I’m at the point where I can’t just walk into a relationship, I need to be very much aware of who I am, and who I am with, before I can decide who I am with…spirituality matters, and also, I need to meet your parents, I need to know who they are, I need to know what their beliefs are, cause I could be dragging some heavy spirits into my home and into my life…”
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