Ayanda Ncwane remembers her late husband Sfiso Ncwane 5 years after his death. It was an emotional day for her but she wiped her tears and decided to pen down a sweet message to him, hoping that heaven receives letters.
"Dear Bab’Ncwane, It’s been 5 years since you left us on this very day. I asked God to give me 5 years to get used living without you Gwamanda (clan name) and He has," she wrote.
Ayanda said she is not grieving her husband but rather she is celebrating him, and that she is taking her time when it comes to getting remarried, "Today I don’t grieve for you, I celebrate you, your powerful legacy, our friendship, our unforgettable love and marriage, you left a bar so high that I’ve taken my time to remarry because I know what a GREAT & enjoyable marriage full of love is supposed to be," she gushed.
Ayanda then spoke highly about how her parenting skills have worked for their children, "You’ll be so proud of how I raised your beautiful boys, because I know how much you loved the boys & how intentional you were at raising them to be even greater than you. Also I think the wedding vows were written by a group of men and there were no women on board because I disagree with the part that says “till death do us part”, maybe for men but personally I carry you in my heart and spirit for the beautiful memories.
Ayanda then joked about how Sfiso would have remarried had she been the one who passed away.
"I know if it was me who passed on by now you’d probably be in your 2nd wife trying to get an amazing wife, best friend & business partner who can at least come close to what I am…. Well the Lord has a great promise for me as per Jeremiah 29:11. … also you should see how beautiful I am right now, you would be going around boasting about me!
"Also you still trending now & again on Twitter, you really lived a purposeful life Gwamanda…..you had a massive life that was compressed to just 37 years. I’ll always love and miss you my darling….. continue to rest in perfect peace," she concluded.
Ayanda Ncwane is doing her very best to preserve her husband's memory and that is why she let go of her bag with Real Housewives Of Durban. She told Daily Sun that the show was not doing enough to try and keep Sfiso's name out of it. Instead they dragged his name every single episode.
"I have built my brand and my brand is so big and high for me to be just associated with the show," she told the publication. “I recently saw a headline that only associated me with the Real Housewives of Durban, and I got annoyed because I have worked so hard building a brand of being a music executive.
"So for me to be associated with something so small whereas I have worked so hard did not sit well with me, and I decided that the show is not for me as I don’t want to be reduced to just being a housewife, while I have worked so hard for everything that I have,” she revealed.
